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The Lifts · L6

Press & Pull, Wrist-Safe

Four upper-body lifts, two rules that run through all of them — set the shoulder blades, keep the wrist straight — and your scaphoid never takes the load.

⏱ ~13 minutes• 💪 Cues, faults & a fault-finder• Neutral-grip, shoulder-safe
◎ Why this lesson

Your upper body builds through pressing and pulling — and for you, how you grip decides whether the work is safe. This lesson keeps every press and pull on a neutral grip with a straight wrist, so you build chest, shoulders and back without ever loading the healed scaphoid in extension.

1Two rules for every rep

Rule one — set the shoulder blades. Before the weight moves, pull your shoulder blades down and into your back pockets and hold them there. On presses it gives a stable shelf; on pulls it switches the back on and protects the shoulder.1

Rule two — keep the wrist straight and stacked. Grip in the meaty heel of the palm, knuckles pointing at the ceiling, wrist in a straight line with the forearm — never cocked back. A neutral grip (palms facing) stacks the knuckles over the forearm naturally, so the load runs down the bones instead of bending the joint.2

✓ Neutral — wrist straight
✗ Extended — scaphoid loads here

2The four lifts

Pressing — elbows tucked ~45°, not flared

Neutral-grip DB bench horizontal

  • Palms facing, wrists stacked over elbows.
  • Lower to mid-chest with elbows at ~45° — never flared to 90°.
  • Press up, stop just short of lockout; don't let the wrists fold back.

Neutral DB / landmine press vertical

  • Seated with back support; palms facing, elbows under wrists.
  • Brace hard so the lower back doesn't arch.
  • Landmine option: press up & slightly forward on a diagonal — easy on the shoulder.

Pulling — set the blades first, lead with the elbows

Chest-supported row horizontal

  • Chest on an incline pad (kills momentum). Palms facing.
  • Set the scapula, then lead with the elbows to your lower ribs.
  • At 30 kg dumbbells grip rarely limits — squeeze, don't death-grip.

Neutral lat pulldown vertical

  • Neutral (V) handle, straight wrists, sit tall.
  • Pull shoulder blades down, drive elbows to the floor, bar to upper chest.
  • Only a slight lean — don't turn it into a lean-back row.

3Fault-finder: what's going wrong?

Tap what you notice — get the cause and the fix.

Pick a symptom

4Protecting wrist and shoulder

✓ Why neutral grip is your default

Palms-facing stacks your knuckles over the forearm, so load runs straight down the bones and the wrist stays neutral — instead of the bent-back extension a pronated barbell forces.2 Cue it every set: "straight, stacked wrist — punch/pull through a flat fist." On heavier barbell pulls a mixed grip keeps your hand from becoming the weak link — your gym has no straps. The one thing to avoid is the flared-elbow, pronated barbell press — worst shoulder angle and forced wrist extension.

⌗ Shoulder care at 40

Warm the shoulders first (band pull-aparts, face pulls, a couple of light ramp sets). Don't ego-load overhead — vertical pressing is the least forgiving pattern, so favour the landmine and neutral dumbbells. Work a full but pain-free range; sharp pinching means reduce range or load, not push through.

◎ Get a real form check

Film a set from the side and the front and post it for feedback: r/Fitness or the rehab-aware Barbell Medicine forum — or describe it to me in chat.

5Check yourself

Question 1 of 3
Where should your elbows be when pressing?
Question 2 of 3
How do you start a row or pulldown?
Question 3 of 3
Why is a neutral grip your default?

What you can now say

  1. Every rep: set the shoulder blades, then move the weight.
  2. Keep a straight, stacked wrist — neutral grip routes load down the forearm.
  3. Press with elbows ~45°, brace hard overhead, stop short of lockout.
  4. Pull by leading with the elbows to the lower ribs / upper chest — no lean-back rowing.
  5. Warm the shoulders, use a mixed grip on heavy pulls, avoid the flared pronated press.
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Primary source · read & watch
A physio's breakdown of the exact wrist position you need. Demos: neutral DB bench, chest-supported row (Nippard), neutral lat pulldown.
💬 I'm your teacher — ask me anything. Want a neutral-grip swap for a specific machine, a cue for flaring elbows, or whether a shoulder twinge means stop? Ask in chat.

§References

  1. Barbell Medicine — How to Bench Press (scapular set, bar path). barbellmedicine.com; NASM — Biomechanics of the Lat Pulldown.
  2. Barbell Rehab — Overhead-press grip: keep a neutral wrist in line with the forearm. barbellrehab.com.

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